Erotic Adventures & Fantasies 2023 – Your Bucket List

New year, new luck! And the thing that makes you happy is the most wonderful thing in the world: sex. We've compiled a list of the erotic adventures Germans are planning to experience this year, both in and out of the bedroom.

What exactly is a bucket list?

A bucket list is a list of things you'd like to accomplish at some point in your life. It can be anything from skydiving, traveling, or even exciting things in bed. You could also describe it as the ultimate "to-do" list.

Slip into another role

Ranked #1 among Germans: role-playing . Role-playing can take all sorts of forms; it's not necessarily about transforming yourself into a completely different person, but also about a change of perspective. It can be erotic to address each other by their last name instead of their first name, or to get to know each other again in a bar and then go home together. Even sexual favors to "pay back" for small things can constitute exciting and erotic role-playing. But there are no limits to your imagination! Doctor games, delivery men, flight attendants, and masseurs are very popular.

Can I have a little more?

In second place is: threesomes or more . Almost half of all Germans would like to have sex with more than one person at the same time. Many men fantasies involve themselves and two women, a so-called FFM, and many women desire MMF, a night with two men. It varies whether the focus should be on the person or the partner. The desire for threesomes is so great that there are dedicated platforms for group requests.

But be careful: this fantasy most often fails because of jealousy.

By the way, a great pick-up line: Do you actually like it hot?

Tied down

Play with being at someone's mercy, and in third place are bondage games. This doesn't always have to involve complex bondage or Shibari. Often, a mental game or even the verbal command "Keep your hands there" is enough. Bondage games can be playfully introduced into the action, using scarves or holding hands.

Caution! Restraints can lead to numbness and impaired circulation, or even crushing or nerve damage. The person restraining the person should therefore have basic anatomical knowledge to avoid these risks. Furthermore, the restrained person should never be left unattended in the room.

Group sex and BDSM

Fourth and fifth place go to group sex and BDSM practices . As with second place, it's all about more! Sex with your partner and other people offers variety with the secure and loved element of your partner. This can be found not only on dating apps , but also in swinger clubs or at sex-positive parties.

BDSM can occur on a wide spectrum, including the aforementioned bondage games (number 3), but also power games or pain. It's important to communicate a lot and ensure that the practices are performed correctly and safely.

Figging , which is the inspiration for our ginger products , also comes from BDSM.

Get out into nature!

We reported extensively in the spring on where to have the best outdoor fun and what to look out for . Outdoor sex is well-deservedly in sixth place. Whether it's on the beach, in the park, or in the water (one of the most common sexual fantasies in America), just make sure it's not in bed. A change of scenery can make sexual encounters even more exciting. We recommend: Get out into nature!

The public kick

Since outdoor activities and sex with other people have already taken the previous places, 7th place is actually no surprise.

Whether in the car, the locker room, or at the outdoor pool, the thrill of being discovered or the pleasure of showing off can be quite sexy! But beware: Getting caught can have legal consequences.

A one-night stand with strangers

A one-night stand is actually theatrical language and was a one-time performance. Today, the term is used for a one-time sexual experience that lasts only one night. To some extent, it's almost like role-playing; for that time, you can get to know the other person at their best. A one-night stand is also the perfect opportunity to live out a secret fantasy you've been too reserved about until now. And at the end, you often have a good story to tell.

Ass up - Anal

While sexual practices are becoming increasingly normal, anal sex is often still associated with certain secretly dirty thoughts. Therefore, it's no wonder that anal sex ranks 9th. Regardless of gender, the anus and stimulation are highly valued by all. This often involves the emotions that accompany this more intimate form of intercourse. Take your time and use the right tools. Our ginger spray can also help with this – it warms the area accordingly.

Camera off - please smile!

Last but not least: "Amateur porn" is the fastest-growing category of erotic films for a reason. In tenth place are photos and videos of sex. These don't necessarily have to end up on one of the popular websites; they can simply inspire each other to repeat the action. Who doesn't like to play the lead role in their own film?

Bucket lists are not must-dos

This is on the Germans' bucket list. What's on your bucket list for 2023?

Remember: Just because something is popular doesn't mean it has to be number 1 or 10 for you. Use the year to experiment!