In the new episode of DEEP & DIRTY, Lisa Opel talks to Ingwer Soerensen – founder of Naturally Naughty and a man who has completely turned his sexuality upside down. The result? A conversation that is uncomfortably honest, surprisingly warm, and erotically human in the best sense.

Sensuality instead of quick thrills – Why this podcast will change your view on intimacy

It becomes clear within the first few minutes: Ingwer is someone who questions the classic “porn programming” – and in doing so has discovered a world that many of us never truly experience: genuine sensuality .

From visual consumer to sensual explorer

Ingwer openly recounts how for decades he thought sexuality was primarily a visual act – driven by images, patterns, and expectations. Until a tantra workshop during the pandemic changed everything. Suddenly, the focus was no longer on bodies or performances, but on:

breath

Sounds & Voices

Skin, temperature & touch

Smell & Taste

Letting go & letting go

He describes what it feels like to close your eyes and switch off your mind. How much calmer, more intense, more honest encounters feel. And why many men (and women) never learn to truly use their senses. These passages alone give you goosebumps – because you so often recognize yourself in them.

Why sensuality is harder for many today than ever before

Ingwer talks about a topic we all know but rarely name: shame .

Many people feel uncomfortable when it suddenly becomes about feeling instead of functioning.
- When partners sniff, lick, listen, and touch.
- When it becomes quiet, still, or silent.
- When it gets intimate before it becomes "sexual".

His solution:
Time. Communication. Playful deprivation of meaning. And rediscovering oneself before opening up to another.

One sentence in particular sticks in your mind:

"Sensuality takes time. Everything else is fast food."

A conversation that inspires courage, sparks enthusiasm, and stimulates thought.

The podcast shows:

- How differently men and women learn to perceive sexuality
- How important consensus, communication & naturalness are
- Why our body can do far more than "process visual stimuli"
- Why we need to rediscover sensuality
- And how Naturally Naughty came about – from real experiences, real learning and real curiosity

This conversation opens doors. For you, for relationships, for new perspectives.

Have a listen – and stay tuned.

This episode is just the beginning. Over the next few weeks, we'll be featuring more podcasts and videocasts where we've been guests:

The Art of Unreason

Kinky Guide

…and other voices that examine sexuality critically, bravely, wildly and honestly.

If you want to understand why sensuality is not esoteric, why intimacy is much more than sex, and why we should all rediscover ourselves…

👉 Then listen to the full podcast episode now:

And: Don't say we didn't warn you – maybe Does this conversation change anything, or just a little?