Sex Workbook: Rediscovering Sexuality with Lisa Opel
Anyone looking for a sex workbook, a book for self-reflection on sexuality, or an honest approach to desire, shame, and relationships will sooner or later end up at...
Sex Sex Sex – Your Complete Sexuality Workbook by Lisa Opel .
And no – this is not a “10 Tips for Better Sex” guide.
It's a workbook. With questions, exercises, space to write. And with moments that are allowed to be uncomfortable.
What exactly is "Sex. Sex. Sex." about?
The workbook guides you through key topics such as:
- own sexual orientation & beliefs
- Desire, Boundaries & Communication
- Body awareness
- Shame & societal expectations
- Fantasies & Needs
- Sexuality in relationships
Instead of imposing knowledge from the outside, the book works with reflection questions, journaling elements and exercises that lead you to your own truth.

Why this Sex Workbook is different
Many books explain sexuality .
This one asks.
And that's the difference.
You won't get a master plan for your sex life.
You will be given space to find out:
- What truly feels right to me?
- Where do I adapt?
- What inner voices are speaking – family background, religion, ex-partner, social media?
- What do I want to keep – what can go?
Especially if you feel that sexuality "sort of works, but isn't entirely honest," such a workbook can be extremely valuable.
This workbook does not assume that there is only one "right" way to have sex or relationships – it helps you find out what works for you.
Who is "Sex. Sex. Sex." suitable for?
This book is suitable if you:
- you want to live your sexuality more consciously
- you want to reconnect with your desire
- you want to reflect on your relationship on a more intimate level
- If you want to question old feelings of shame or guilt
- If you want to work on yourself alone – or are looking for inspiration for conversations
It works for both singles and couples.
And it's not a book you "read through" – but one you work through.
Our honest assessment
What we like about this workbook:
It is not provocative. Not oversexualized. Not pseudo-spiritual.
It's quiet. Direct. In some parts, very clear.
And that's exactly what makes it strong.
Especially in a world where sexuality is either taboo or completely commodified, such a structured, self-determined approach feels refreshingly mature.
It's not about becoming "better". It's about becoming more honest.
Conclusion: Is Lisa Opel's Sex Workbook worth it?
If you're looking for a book that:
- genuine self-reflection on sexuality is enabled
- practical exercises instead of empty phrases
- Desire, boundaries & communication made tangible
- You were not rated
… then
Sex Sex Sex – Your Complete Sexuality Workbook by Lisa Opel
Definitely worth a look.
Here you can find the book
