Cuckolding - Take a seat

Have you ever noticed in hotels that there is always a chair facing the bed? In kinky circles, it is also known as a cuck chair. This is intended for a person who watches fun activities on the bed without being allowed to actively participate.
But what exactly is a cuck?
A cuck is not a bird, but tolerates a stranger in the nest.
The word "cuck" actually comes from the English word for cuckoo. This bird is known to lay its eggs in other nests and have its young raised by them. The cuckoo has been associated with infidelity since the Middle Ages. In some historical works, the cheated husband who knows about his wife's lovers is called a cuck. The counterpart as top to a cuckold or a cuckquean is the hotwife or cuckoldress, the person who is invited for this game is also called a bull.
What's hot about cuckolding?
Cuckolds or cuckqueans enjoy the humiliation and voyeuristic aspect of this type of play. They don't always have to be in the room while their partner is being played with by someone else. For many, it's about being excluded and distant during this time, waiting expectantly while they imagine what is happening to their partner. Many people also combine cuckolding with chastity, bondage or other types of play.
In the BDSM scene, the term has a new meaning: instead of cheating, new partners become mutual play partners who become part of the relationship. You don't necessarily have to be poly or open, that's entirely up to the couples themselves. Cuckolds or cuckqueans find it arousing when their partners have other lovers and dominate them sexually or in everyday life. This conscious subordination often extends to the lovers as well, in order to reinforce the erotic element of humiliation.
And how can you get started?
There are many different ways to find out if cuckolding is for you. Start with spoken fantasies, for example, what it would be like if one of you were with someone else and how hot it makes you. The fantasy can then also be continued with voyeuristic role play, where one of you masturbates while the other sits blindfolded. Then the toy you use quickly becomes someone completely different, with the right role play and fantasy. Warning: don't necessarily resort to people from your circle of friends.
For example, try dating. Test out what it's like when one of you spends time with another person. And if you manage to do all of that and enjoy it, the possibilities are endless! A third person is always welcome and, if chosen carefully, can take your relationship dynamics and sex to a new level.
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